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Lola's First Modeling Job
Written by Jim   
Sunday, 17 February 2008
OK, so maybe I went a little overboard on the photos the first several weeks. But they came in handy when I decided what to give Jamie and Lola for Valentines day. A service I found online called MyPublisher.com allowed me to upload photos, format the pages as I wanted and have them printed as a book. I order one for Jamie and Lola and one for each of the grandmothers. It may just be the best gift I have ever given.
 
Kudos to MyPublisher.com , they made it fun and easy to create a very high-quality book that will most certainly be sitting on our coffee table for many years to come. 
 
 
 
What a week
Written by Jim   
Sunday, 17 February 2008
Well, last week was full of ups and downs.
 
On Tuesday, February 12th one of Lola's Great Grandmothers passed away. Inez Belknap is my Mother's Mother and she was a great woman. She was definately the matriarch of the family and ruled this clan until the day she died. "Ma" as the grandkids and great-grandkids called her, was 89 when she died. My biggest regret is that she never got to meet Lola in person.
 
Lola and Jamie and I attended the funeral services on Thursday, one day after Lola turned 4-weeks old. This was the first time we had taken her out in public, to actually meet people. It was a great day. My cousin Jenny's neverending comments about Lola's supply of hair bows and the size of most of the bows relative to the size of Lola's head. If you haven't noticed Lola's bow collection you haven't seen the pictures in the gallery. Take a look. It was wonderful being able to show her off to people finally. The Doctor has us so concerned about her weight and flu season and germs and people touching and...and..and....ENOUGH!
 
I want my daughter to meet her family and we're taking her! And That's That!!  (OK, I didn't really say that to the doctor. But I could have.)
 
So Lola got to meet her Great Grandfather, "Pa", and his kids (Mom's brother and two sisters) and their families, including eight grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. Not surprisingly, the excitement was too much for Miss Lola and she shut down and slept most of the day. Through all the passing and poking and touching and oooohs and aaaahs Lola performed beautifully. She made her parents and her grandparents very proud.
 
But through it all, Ma's passing, Lola's four-week birthday, the funeral and now back at home for some well-deserved down-time Lola is still the best thing I could have ever imagined. I still look at her and I can't believe she's finally here. How could I possibly deserve this? 
 
 
Last Updated ( Thursday, 20 March 2008 )
 
Day 14
Written by Jim   
Wednesday, 30 January 2008
WOW! I can't believe it...TWO WEEKS...
 
...and we haven't dropped her yet!!!! You may laugh...but it was a goal. Surprised
 
But I did cause harm to my daughter. I was horrified. And though her wounds will certainly heal, I am forever scarred.
 
OK, here's the scoop. From the moment we found out we were having a baby I have been scared of one thing. Not the dirty diapers...nor the lack of sleep...I was not even scared of dropping my little girl on her head. It's those horrible tools of terror that cause me nightmares...the nail clippers.
 
Yes, I have been terrified of clipping my daughter's fingernails. And it ends up that I was completely justified.
 
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Yes, I caused my daughter to bleed!!!
 
I am --almost-- over the trauma. But I am sure that Lola will NEVER, NEVER forgive me for what I did. 
 
I will probably even have to take her shopping for a prom dress some day to help make amends for the agony I have caused.
 
But for now, we remain one very happy family.
 
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Last Updated ( Wednesday, 30 January 2008 )
 
Rough Day
Written by Jim   
Monday, 21 January 2008

Day 5:

 

We had our first appointment scheduled today with our new Pediatrician. It was supposed to be a routine wellness check. You know, fill out all the paperwork for the first-time patient and meet the doc and then go home and eat lunch.

Well, seven hours, five needle sticks and one IV later...

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I'll back up. Two days ago Lola started to worry us because she was sleeping so much and not crying. Everyone we talked to acted like we were absolutely crazy to question such a wonderfully tempered baby. "Don't worry, she'll wake up when she gets hungry..." was the response from Doctors, Nurses, Friends, Family...everyone. So who were we to question the overwhelming amount of professional advice.

 

Well, the next day she started crying more...and more...and more. So now we've tipped the other side of the scale all together.

 

Anyway, this went on for two days. We had our first appointment with the pedi already scheduled for Monday so we figured everything would be all right. But when we saw the Doc this morning she was more concerned than we expected. She wanted us to go straight to the ER for blood work. Including blood sugar and some "Billy Bad Ass" test, later to be clarified as a Bilirubin test.

 

Bilirubin, according to Wikipedia is "is a yellow breakdown product of normal heme catabolism. Its levels are elevated in certain diseases and it is responsible for the yellow color of bruises and the brown color of feces." High bilirubin counts in the blood is a sign of Jaundice.

 

So, we went to the ER. I know now that no trip to the ER is a short trip. I have a suspicion that I am about to learn more in the next few years than I have ever needed to know in my life.

 

I also learned that no matter what I previously considered the worst thing imaginable, it is in fact watching someone stab your 5-day-old daughter with a way-too-big needle over and over because the veins in a newborn, much less those of a dehydrated newborn, are not at all easy to find and even less easy to hit when you do find them.

 

Thank God that Lola will not be cursed with the memories of what happened today. In fact, tonight she is doing much better. Dare I say, Normal? We are supplementing her breast feeding with formula and feeding every two hours. So far, so good. In fact, she’s crying now. That cry is the most wonderful sound. I hope I never forget that. Gotta go.


 
Last Updated ( Tuesday, 22 January 2008 )
 
Lola's Stats
Written by Jim   
Wednesday, 16 January 2008

Lola Elizabeth Odom

 

Born: 16-Jan-08
Weight: 6 lb. 4 oz.
Height: 19 1/4 inches
Hair: Brown
Eyes: Blue
Last Updated ( Sunday, 20 January 2008 )
 
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